Add SQLx operation tracing (#5223)

* wip: vendor sqlx-tracing

* (compiles) standardize pg types used

* more standardization

* general log message improvements

* wip: improve sqlx-tracing architecture

* unify sqlx::Executor type

* wip: try fix sqlx tracing

* wip: sqlx-tracing compiles

* so close

* it compiles

* fix ci

apps/labrinth/Cargo.toml

@@ -27,7 +27,6 @@ async-stripe = { workspace = true, features = [
   "connect",
   "webhook-events",
 ] }
-derive_more = { workspace = true, features = ["deref", "deref_mut"]}
 async-trait = { workspace = true }
 base64 = { workspace = true }
 bitflags = { workspace = true }
@@ -41,6 +40,7 @@ color-thief = { workspace = true }
 const_format = { workspace = true }
 dashmap = { workspace = true }
 deadpool-redis.workspace = true
+derive_more = { workspace = true, features = ["deref", "deref_mut"] }
 dotenvy = { workspace = true }
 either = { workspace = true }
 eyre = { workspace = true }
@@ -112,6 +112,7 @@ sqlx = { workspace = true, features = [
   "rust_decimal",
   "tls-rustls-aws-lc-rs",
 ] }
+sqlx-tracing = { workspace = true, features = ["postgres"] }
 strum = { workspace = true }
 thiserror = { workspace = true }
 tokio = { workspace = true, features = ["rt-multi-thread", "sync"] }